Chapter XXI-Choice of Society, and Formation of Friendships.
Character is formed under a great variety of influences. Sometimes a very trifling circumstance gives direction to the whole course of one's life. And every incident that occurs, from day to day, is exerting a silent, gradual influence, in the formation of your character. Among these influences, none are more direct and powerful than that exerted upon us by the companions with whom we associate; for we insensibly fall into their habits. This is especially true in childhood and youth, when the character is plastic, like soft wax,- - easily impressed.
Taken from How to Be A Lady by Harvey Newcomb, first printed in 1850. I bought this book for Alli as a Christmas present. I'm finding however that I can't seem to put it down. Some of the chapter titles are: Knowledge of Household Affairs, Habits, Doing One Thing at a time,Government of the Tongue, and Being Useful. If you like old reads, this is a good one.
~Julie
